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Plain answers to the questions parents of college students actually ask. Written by Kevin Cook, dad of a college student and the founder of Encourage Us.
August 19, 2026 - 6 min read
What to text your college student after drop-off
The first two weeks set the tone for the whole semester. What to send, what to hold back, and a dozen example texts that support without hovering.
August 19, 2026 - 7 min read
When your college student goes quiet
Short calls and one-word replies around week three are usually a phase, not a verdict. Why it happens, the signs that actually matter, and how to stay close without pressure.
August 19, 2026 - 6 min read
How often should you text your college student?
There is no magic number, but there is a right pattern: light, predictable, and reply-optional. A default that works, and the signs you should adjust.